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Reading Kirk Byron-Jones

Kirk Byron-Jones’ book Fulfilled is worth a read from the first sentence on.  There’s something about his lavish joy in language that entrances the heart. I’ve loved his preaching, and still think he was one of the best keynote speakers I’ve ever heardFulfilled at our annual Synod Assembly some years ago, here in New England. Fulfilled brings back the sound of his voice, and his rich wisdom.  I love reading his works on ministry and preaching because he names the hollow places, the times of emptiness and discouragement, the fragility of relationships, the strain of work that continually surprises and makes demands.  Even though one consents to all the pushes and pulls of ministry, nevertheless, one gets worn out. Byron-Jones names this fatigue and seeks to minister to it.  I have yet to read a book of his without coming away feeling strengthened and encouraged for the work I do.

Fulfilled begins with three scripture passages that speak of God’s promise to pour out water on those of us who are thirsty, water that becomes in us a well of life: Isaiah 12:3; Isaiah 44:3; and John 4:14.  He writes “Though water is present in all three scriptures, it is the lavish nature of the water that captures my heart.” Lavish. Like him. Then, he goes on to say something that I want to claim for myself, too: “I no longer can tolerate the disconnect between the over-flowing spiritual sustenance named in these texts and the sense of barely making it in ministry.”  It’s a good sentence to claim when dry times come upon us. In Fulfilled, Byron-Jones imagines there are other ways of “living and leading from spiritual and emotional abundance as opposed to scarcity, to live and lead on “Full” as a way of life, as opposed to “Empty” as a way of life.” If I were in his congregation, and heard that sentence, I would say, “amen.” Here’s the link. It’s worth it. http://www.amazon.com/Fulfilled-Living-Leading-Unusual-Wisdom/dp/142675793X

Where the name came from

This summer, when we were traveling in France, we drove and walked through parts of southwest France famous for their plums. Plum Village was the high point of the places we visited, where Thich Nhat Hanh was in residence, in the heart of the orchards of plum trees, fields of sunflowers, woods and hay fields. After Plum Village, we stayed in a farm house called Domaine de Touille, high on a hillside in a village called St. Urcisse, near Agen. There on the grounds, the plum tree near the house was fully ripe, and plums fell gently, throughout the days we were there. We picked them up in passing, casually, and bit into the sweet fruit; the taste stopped us in our tracks, and we stood, slowly eating the fruits. The plum tree there became an image of abundance unearned, the grace of a tree in the fullness of time. The ground underneath it was covered in fallen fruit. The plums were small, and rich in taste, and made us think of plum wine. Our host made plum jellies, plum sauces and plum compotes and stuffed their fowl with plums. Here at home, a plum tree grows outside my house, and in the late summer and fall, the tiny plums are sweet food for many birds, and they, too, fall gently, with a quiet sound, like a very heavy raindrop.

Years ago, when I was training as a spiritual director, our teacher compared spiritual direction to the making of fruit jam. First, there is the experience of something offered, without our doing anything, the way a beautiful fruit tree offers her plums. Then, there is the tasting, the discovery, the surprise; then a harvest, and the making of a jelly or jam, a slow process, with many steps, before the beautiful clear jelly is stored away until needed. Then, in the dead of winter, when we take it out and taste it, the whole experience comes back again, the seeing of a tree full of fruit, the tasting of plums, the savoring of its sweet richness. This morning, we are starting a small spiritual direction group here, only four of us, but we’ll bring our memories, experiences, stories, dreams, and prayers, and it will make for a sweet rich conversation. May it be so for you, today.

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